What you first need to realize about women, is that they watch more Gay Porn than Gay Men watch Gay Porn. AND the reason they watch Gay Porn at all, is due to something that no one talks about.
Heterosexual Bed Death and Mens Toxic Macho Cosplay
Heterosexual Bed Death is what occurs in a lot of marriages after about 2-4 years. The couple just stops having sex, or the sex gets less and less frequent and fun. It becomes utilitarian. First the oral sex stops then sex starts to dry up.
Lets explore why this happens, then I will get into why women like Gay Porn so much...
On March 27th 2005 a writer named Ayelet Waldman wrote an article for the NY times called "Truly, Madly, Guiltily." It blew up, all across the country. Women took offense to this article. In it Ayelet (a mom of 4) stated that everytime she was at Gymboree or Mommy And Me classes the conversation would end up at "how often mommy feels compelled to put out". And no one was having sex in the Mommy groups.
.....Except for Ayelet.
Ayelet stated (controversially) that she was getting a lot of sex, because she "loved her husband, more than she loved her children." and the country lost their shit!
I have read this article many many times and I have often wondered why Mommies seem to stop having sex once they marry and have kids. I was one of them. I thought my sons father loved me, and I thought I loved him. Before him I had an extremely colorful and kinky sexlife, so why, when I supposedly found a man who loved me, why did the sex dry up? I even started therapy to find out the cause...
Well, I think I have figured it out and more.
Before I go on I wanna focus on the phrase, "how often mommy feels compelled to put out"... Doesn't that give the impression that women view sex as something they have to do, rather then something they wanna do?
I think on womens part, having a child out of your vagina, sometimes is traumatizing. You feel like an open wound and sex is the last thing you want.
Anyway, follow along with me....
I believe the top cause of all issues between men and women is the fact that physically, men and women are sexually INCOMPATIBLE. They always try and say "God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve"... Well, Gods heterosexual "design" has a major flaw.
75% of all women on the face of the earth cant achieve orgasm thru vaginal intercourse.
That's right, women and men are not physically compatible. Lets see why...
You know why women cant cum from intercourse with you and your magic penis??
Its
because their CLITORISES (clitorisi?) are too far up on their vulvas to
get friction and stimulation from your penis. What this means for
women is that women need their man to either rub their clits during sex
to help, or they need to get her very horny before sex, or they have to
have a pre or post sex orgasm to get satisfied sexually in the relationship. In great marriages/relationships they are already doing this...
But in most marriages they are suffering in silence..
Women will have sex with a few different people and never be able to cum
with any of them and so instead of chalking it up to poor anatomical design they
internalize it and think they are just not sexual people and abnormal. When they are amongst their friends they will fake it and brag they are cumming and their
friends say they are cumming too, so no one is honest and no one gets to the bottom of it.
Lets be honest women, most of us aren't cumming at all during sex and we wait till hubby leaves and we get out Mr Buzzy and make ourselves cum.
I have mentioned this on reddit subs and women come out and say that, "yeah, we just do it to feel close to our hubbies"... So women are not having good sex.
Most women actually are not aware of this 75% fact. They just think they are abnormal, and suffer in silence, afraid to talk to people about it for fear of judgement or fear that they wont be viewed as sexy desirable women.
Women don't understand just how normal they are for not cumming during sex, and if they don't know the reason and they've been taught masturbation is a sin and they don't even know what a goddamn orgasm feels like, they might think sex ISN'T as fun as other girls say it is... and just put up with it. Unfortunately there are a lot of marriages where the man doesn't understand this, due to no education, or not understanding women, or religious abuse or just being a Meatball.
Let me explain the difference between men and women. Men are visual, that's why they like porn. Women need to hear things and have you stimulate their mind. Women need time to dream, fantasize and reset. If you cant stimulate your wife's mind and talk to her candidly about sex and her desires and make her super turned on before you even touch her, you will never have a good marriage and a happy wife and home.
What sex is like for women in the 75%...
So imagine this, All week (statistically women are still doing 80% of the domestic chores) your wife has had the kids and house chores to deal with. She's had no time to think or dream or reset her self. Before you got married your favorite way to unwind and relax was spending time together and talking and having sex. NOW, you dart off to a mancave to avoid her and your kids, WHY?
Meanwhile you are having all the orgasms and shes having nothing!
Women get Wet Ass Pussy (WAP) by stimulating their minds, not with quickies. All those hours spent in your cave, could have been spent slowly seducing one and other.
So this is why women at Mommy and Me and Gymboree aren't glowingly talking about all the hot sex they've been having.. If they aren't getting the ultimate enjoyment out if it and its medium grade fun, then after kids it might not seem worth it...
If women aren't aware, and men aren't aware of this 75% statistic, then they cannot fix it, they will get frustrated and it will damage the relationship. I certainly wasn't aware of the 75% rule and one of my hobbies is sex. I just always thought something was wrong with me, that I wasn't excited enough or something.
I think most men love their significant others and want a great marriage and sexlife, but if they don't know what the problem is, how can they fix it?
Lets talk about the symptoms of this sexual pleasure imbalance okay.
Number 1-- Heterosexual Bed Death
Women will get tired of "going thru the motions" in bed with you. If its mediocre sex after the marriage is 2 yrs in and shes not getting anything from you, she will mentally weigh the choice between getting her crotch all messy for a boring robotic shag versus staying on the couch, dry and clean with her dog, her Starbucks and a cookie and watching her shows. She will start the headaches, then she will start "accidentally" falling asleep on the couch so she isn't in bed with you and your demands. Then she will be at Mommy and Me classes telling everyone shes not getting laid.
Number 2 -- Alternate Pleasure Sources
Your wife, who never gets an orgasm that you give her, will eventually start looking for alternate pleasure sources. It will begin with food and she will get fat. She'll start to buy a lot of cookbooks and shit from the TvFood Network, She was once a knockout, but now she wears clothes from the Missus section at Walmart. Or it will be an HGTV addiction and your house will soon be Shiplapped to fucking death!
She might get into Quilting or Cricuting and she will fill up everyones closets that she knows with custom homemade shit.
She'll start watching The Bachelor a lot more than usual. Or other types of these shows.
She will buy 50 Shades of Grey and gossip about it to her friends and they will giggle when they meet at the movie theater to see the movie...Inside she wishes she was Dakota... Then she will act like it was no big deal when you ask how her day was....
Or she will put all her love and devotion into the kids, and lose herself. She will bake 1000 cookies for the bake sale or she will start living thru her teen daughter and getting obsessive.
Or she will become a YouTube Crazy, like Bullhorn Betty. Addicted orgasmically to the ecstasy of the power of Likes and Views and subs. Or having a scoop no one has heard yet. the ultimate KAREN. (Bullhorn Betty is just an example, I'm not implying that shes not getting laid)
You will get frustrated and start drinking more or avoiding her and the kids for your alternate pleasure sources of hobbies, golf weekends with the guys (whose wives ain't cumming either) or a Mancave, and video games. Sports, Gambling, Or drugs. This will make things exponentially worse.
Number 3 -- Cheating
You and/or your wife will finally one day get tired of not having a fun sexlife. She will read something online and it will awaken her sexually and she will call an ex boyfriend and they will have sex. Or you will cheat with a waitress from Applebees, after you told her your wife wont blow you anymore or that shes gotten fat or something like that. And once again this will make things more exponentially worse.
The big issue here is that she still wont be having an orgasm with the new guy and by the stats, you wont be making waitress From Applebees cum either. Of course after your wife kicks you out and you move in with the waitress, she will get pregnant and so you will marry her and statistically she wont be cumming either and 2 yrs in the cycle starts again.
I think this ONE thing is the root cause of all the strife and discontentment between Men and Women. I think it is why everything breaks down between loving, good heterosexual couples. I think most loving husbands WANT to find solutions. However, I do also believe that there are some women who face an uphill climb when it comes to this issue cause their husbands are Meatballs. This post is for those couples, even tho Meatballs are incapable of change.
So lets discuss Meatballs.
I coined the term Meatball to describe the following...
A Meatball is a Blue Collar guy who might be nice looking and have a good paying job, and able to get a date, but to be 100% honest, Meatballs don't like women emotionally, they want a wife to do things for them (sex, keep house) but they just cant connect or don't want to connect intimately with women.They love sex with women, but not emotionally. Their entire marriage is spent acting. Acting like they love their wives, acting like they are happy being Dads, acting as if they are happy with their lives. They tend to spend a lot of time away from home (hobbies/mancave/oddjobsforfriends) to not have to connect deeply with their partner. These men want the UTILITY of women but not the actual woman..Women cant ever get thru to a Meatball. Meatballs get married to women who are God Fearing and aren't very bright because then they will never have to worry about her questioning him. She will believe its her godly duty to service him, even when its no fun for her.
This post is also for the men in society who are fearful and scared of being thought of, as weak. And the men who have been brainwashed into thinking what a real man is...
This is the "Mens Toxic Macho Cosplay" Part.
So lets discuss what a man is...
Some men in this world lead lives of quiet desperation, some of them start off in life in Kindergarten and by the time they reach Jr High and High School they know that they aren't as academically or creatively gifted as some other boys so they go to trade school. Nothing wrong with this. We need these men. But what starts to occur is, lets use carpet laying in this case. So this carpet layer gets called to a house in tony Valley Forge, Pa. He gets there, and its a 5 million dollar estate and they treat him like dirt. Wont let him use the toilet, wont let him put tools down and roll their eyes at him. That causes him to become bitter about his lot in life and retreat into a fantasy world. He starts dreaming of being omnipotent like Schwarzenegger or The Rock, he wants to be a Cowboy or rich and powerful like JR Ewing or Trump. He completely stops progressing as a human being, and starts to emulate these cartoon caricatures of manhood. and stops wanting to learn and get better as a man. If you get treated like less than repeatedly, you become jaded and defensive and when others try to help, you think they are saying they are better then you and you lash out and you cant absorb knowledge.
.......and these men idolize artificial representations of manhood, like Cowboys, JR Ewing, Wrestlers, and Trump. For some reason these men idolize the very men that would treat them like shit in person.
I'm going to say something that is gonna hurt, a lot.
Since the beginning of time, Men's whole entire identities have been wrapped up in their cocks. How big it is, if its not too big how can I make it bigger, how can I maintain an erection, what kind of drugs are there for my ED, etc. These stupid Alpha Male commercials talking about testosterone etc etc etc,There are whole festivals in Japan dedicated to Phalluses...
.......and its all for nothing.
Because 75% of all the women in the world don't have orgasms from ANY OF YOUR COCKS!.
AND, guess what? That Cowboy, That Wrestler, Dallas' JR Ewing and Trump's cocks don't do anything to make 75% of the worlds women cum either, so you are all in the same boat.
No matter how much money, fame, Viagra or inches you have, it doesn't make 75% of all women cum from your cock in her pussy. And if you are a Meatball, your wife wont ever cum, cause you will never want to grow as a man. You will sit there with your dumb yet nice religious wife (who will never blow you cause its a sin) with your Trump sign in the window dreaming of GLORY.
And in fact, vaginal sex isn't even pleasurable to her if its a quickie, it feels like nothing.. Especially if shes been taking care of 4 rugrats all day and has puke on her shoulder.
So Ill give you a few days to pick your shattered ego up off the floor and come to that realization, and then you can scroll down and read the rest. See you then....
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Lets continue, shall we?...................
So, how do you have a great marriage with satisfying sex for both partners?
Drop your artificially macho Alpha Male bullshit, and stop running away from your house and wife and kids and build intimacy. If you cant stimulate your wifes mind and talk to her candidly about sex and her desires and make her super turned on before you even touch her, you will never have a good marriage and a happy wife and home.
Well, when I realized that you need love tooGonna spend my life makin' love to youI got to be a loverHave mercyWell, well, I worked all day as hard as I canWorked all night, didn't make me a man (forgot to be a lover)Have mercy, oohWhen I realized that you need love tooGonna spend my life makin' love to you (forgot to be a lover)Got to be a lover, babeOoh, have mercy (have mercy)Have mercy, baby (have mercy, baby)
If she gave great blowjobs before the wedding, then a few years in, she stops doing it for YOU, your communication and attention to her, has hit a snag. Women who love giving head, enjoy it.
WHY ARE YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU ARE AFRAID TO TELL THE OTHER SPOUSE ANYTHING??
If you are in a relationship and you come upon something you are afraid to tell them, then figure out WHY you are afraid, and work that out before it festers and becomes an open wound
Note: If you afraid to tell him/her things from the beginning you are already committing TO LYING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. Think about that!
If you cant be open and honest from jump, from the first date to marriage and beyond with a person you swap body fluids with and move in with, then why? Why spend on average $25,000 to get married? Spend that on a vacation, a dildo/vibrator or an Accujack/Fleshlight and call it a day!
Lemme tell you the top 4 secret fantasies of MEN:
BDSM
Same Sex Encounters
Dominating Someone or Being Dominated
Public Sex
What are the top 4 secret fantasies of WOMEN?
BDSM
Same Sex Encounters
Dominating someone or Being Dominated
Public Sex
ALL OF US!
For women to stop being judged for being sluts, whores, freaks, easy etc you have TO STOP JUDGING YOURSELF FIRST. Stop judging other women for wanting and getting the sex you deep inside want. Billie Eilish is allowed to date who ever she fucking wants. Even if hes 85 yrs old! Women tend to judge others for things they aren't happy with in themselves.
I was watching some comedian who said that men get ANGRY, because they can't show emotion, so ALL emotions come out as anger or violence.
Men are always mentally prepared for a fight, whether from a home intruder, a man on the street, drunk guy at a bar staring at his girlfriend, or guy he reported to HR at work...
Men are therefore scared to be VULNERABLE.
Women? You're feeding into the Cowboy Cosplay thing too, by not letting him be vulnerable at home with you, and then you bitch that he isn't "TALKING TO YOU ENOUGH!"
Let him be vulnerable with you. If he cries during a movie that's hot, if he lays around the house sobbing for 4 months cause Dale Earnhardt Sr died, he needs therapy.
Your wife does loads of shit for you, the kids and the house all day long 24/7 365 a year.
Why do you expect a celebration everytime YOU do anything around the house or for the kids?
Does SHE get a celebration everytime she does anything? NO.
If you can go to the mountains with your buddies for a week and pick up after yourself and keep the cabin tidy but cant do it at home, WHY? Why aren't you thinking of your family?
Example: If you and your wife have a baby and you suddenly spend more and more time away from home that means you don't enjoy parenthood or family life... This is where I do agree with Bill Burr.
So, for the past (almost) 3 years, Ive been having fantasies in my head about a famous male acting duo. Im gonna try hard to be very anonymous here, and not ID them. Because I think they have had at least a few kisses or a romp in an on set trailer... The reason I love these 2 men, is their dynamic, on screen and off, one is quiet and the other isn't. In joint video interviews something always seems to be sexually and sensually afoot.
So almost 3-1/2 years ago today, this month, I was surfing the internet and, look, I never took notice of them before (I wasn't even a fan. All I look up is Letterman, Elton John, True Crime and Cooking) I see the quiet one alone on a talk show discussing the duo on an interview, and the quiet ones subconscious hand motions when certain questions were asked about the loud one just confirmed it for me.
He was making intercourse motions with his finger and other hand, EVERYTIME HE TALKED ABOUT THE OTHER ACTOR!!!! So much so that the YouTube channels owner made that the thumbnail.
Then I googled them after being intrigued and see a pic of them in public and the quiet one is looking at the loud one with such deference and love. I don't think they knew the pic was being taken.
But look,
I hate fan fiction!
I Hate It!
I looked at one once and it scarred me deeply! OMG!
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Dear Male Fan Fiction writers, Look, a woman's pussy ain't called a LOVE TUNNEL!
Yes! One of the writers did say that! lol
So, as with all the erotica I've written over the years, the Acting Duos Fan Fiction story that I started writing was what I'd call sexually intense. Intense because the energy and dynamic and interaction was intensely personal, intensely emotional and intensely vulnerable.
Because that's the way I feel they are. Quiet one is definitely the bottom.
I'm still watching gay BDSM porn even tho my novel is finished. I watch because of the two creators I watch. Because of the romance and tenderness and personalities. It's more like a real life soap opera. Ive never seen this in any heterosexual porn ever. It is some of the most vulnerable, romantic, tender porn Ive ever seen, and my Dad had Keys to the Playboy Clubs and was a swinger before my parents met. Ive seen plenty of porn. Anyway, let's remove the BDSM aspect of the porn I've been watching, and only focus on purely gay porn for the purposes of THIS demonstration.
Look at what you CHERISH most of all...?
Your VEHICLES!
You get very upset when something happens to your car or truck.
You know why? You put LOTS of work into your vehicles!
You work very hard and save up a lot of money to buy it, you spend time fixing it up, you spend
lots of money buying new parts and do dads for it and you wash it and wax it every weekend.
Why aren't you doing the same for your woman? What gets US horny is being treated like a Hot Sexual Princess, not a breeding factory, not a fleshlight, not just a body.
4) Gay men are very in touch with themselves sexually, because they are gay and gay men read and talk and discuss sex with people a lot. They KNOW sex and themselves far better then straight insular men.
They also don't worry about religious nonsense or what society or their friends think.
Women are more like gay men, in that they read romance novels, self help books, talk to their friends. explore their sexuality.
What should straight men do?
Read sex books, BOTH male and female romance novels, get to know YOURSELF sexually. Drop your biases.
Boy Georges Dad was a BOXER and trained all his sons to BOX, Boy George will also have you TKOed.
The erotic novel I wrote is full of strategic sexual phrasing and pointed language to arouse men and women (again, women watch a great deal of gay porn) ...
I once had phone sex with a submissive man. I didn't enjoy it, but he certainly did, and the reason I was able to provide him with that experience was cause I am a submissive myself and knew all the right phrases to use. I think the phrase "Finish him off" really got him. Cause as soon as I said it, he came. LOL
If you want a woman to mother you in your sex life and relationship and SHE also likes that, then no problem... BUT please understand this: Women don't wanna involuntarily be forced into Mothering their partner, because that's pedophilia/incest and it's ICKY. Be a grown up.
Lets return to the beginning of this post...To tie it all together...
If 75% of all women aren't being sexually satisfied due to their anatomy.......
And they don't know this cause no one tells them, then they will think they just don't enjoy sex and then add religious sexual oppression to the picture and a husband who definitely doesn't understand this and has his own sexual hang ups from peers opinions of him as a man and oppression from society as well. And then you also bring in scanty education and the increasing divide between men and women and you have a very dysfunctional sexual relationship where NO ONE IS HAPPY OR GETTING THEIR NEEDS MET.
So now that we've found out that the reason women love gay porn is because
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