How To Repair And Reset Your Sex Life
Women? if your hubby is a good man, you guys will work it out.
So what do we as humans do to have a happy marriage with good sex.
1- Get into counseling to untie those knots of resentment and scorn.
2-
Reduce as much stress as possible so you can relax and open up and be
sexual. Debts, kids, family responsibilities aren't helping her have more
warm up time. Downsize your life, Write a letter to family and friends
telling them you "love them but here's our boundaries." You should set up
rules about what issues you will be available for to support and which
ones you wont. Me and my 1st sister weren't raised together, so we weren't
close, so I told her we didn't have to exchange Xmas or Birthday
Presents after our Father died. She was very amenable to this and
agreed. So that's a boundary I put up. Why keep buying and receiving
gifts if it adds to your stress every year? Her gift cancelled out my
gift, so just STAHP!
3 - Look up "ways to increase intimacy" on Google and reconnect
4 - Make your spouse your priority over the kids
5
- Read BDSM novels together, even if you aren't into BDSM, the reason is
because the entire thing with BDSM is total honesty and intimacy. As a
matter of fact, read all kinds of sex books together. and be 100%
honest. Use some of the non S&M BDSM principals in your life
6 - Send the kids to bed earlier
7 - Turn off the Tv, Phone, and Computer and do things as a family.
8 - Start flirting again, get the "juices" coming earlier then bedtime
9 - Meditate, to reset your mind
10 - Flirt all day
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