How To Repair And Reset Your Sex Life

How To Repair And Reset Your Sex Life

Women? if your hubby is a good man, you guys will work it out.

So what do we as humans do to have a happy marriage with good sex.

1- Get into counseling to untie those knots of resentment and scorn.

2- Reduce as much stress as possible so you can relax and open up and be sexual. Debts, kids, family responsibilities aren't helping her have more warm up time. Downsize your life, Write a letter to family and friends telling them you "love them but here's our boundaries." You should set up rules about what issues you will be available for to support and which ones you wont. Me and my 1st sister weren't raised together, so we weren't close, so I told her we didn't have to exchange Xmas or Birthday Presents after our Father died. She was very amenable to this and agreed. So that's a boundary I put up. Why keep buying and receiving gifts if it adds to your stress every year? Her gift cancelled out my gift, so just STAHP!

3 - Look up "ways to increase intimacy" on Google and reconnect

4 - Make your spouse your priority over the kids

5 - Read BDSM novels together, even if you aren't into BDSM, the reason is because the entire thing with BDSM is total honesty and intimacy. As a matter of fact, read all kinds of sex books together. and be 100% honest. Use some of the non S&M BDSM principals in your life

6 - Send the kids to bed earlier

7 - Turn off the Tv, Phone, and Computer and do things as a family. 

8 - Start flirting again, get the "juices" coming earlier then bedtime

9 - Meditate, to reset your mind

10 - Flirt all day

And LOVE and LISTEN

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