Men & Women
Both Suck!
Please Note: This post will be very blunt and at times mean and hateful, Im mean and hateful to Women and Men EQUALLY. Take your talking to.
Lets Begin Class...
Issues between men and women are universal.
In every single country and culture, men and women have the same issues.
And nothing ever is done to fix them.
The issues people state are:
Sex
Money
Time Spent With One And Other
Kids
Household Chores
Those are all valid issues, but no one ever discusses what really is causing those issues
These are the REAL issues:
Parents who raise boys one way and girls another.
Couples who lie to each other and keep things from each other
Couples together for the wrong reasons
Marrying too early
Anatomical sexual incompatibility
Men with deep insecurities/Toxic Masculinity
Women with deep insecurities/Toxic Femininity
Emotional Homosexuality
Men who dont like sex
Women who dont like sex
The big corporations monopolizing all the jobs and paying shit wages so that money is always tight and young couples cant get their heads above water and it makes things tense. OOPS! Wasnt gonna go there!
So lets pick apart the layers of all these ACTUAL issues and then talk about solutions.. Everything ties into one and other........
Lets start with
1
Parents who raise boys one way and girls another.
Parents raise BOYS to
Not take care of themselves
Play the field sexually
Live in a fantasy world
To not control themselves
Parents raise GIRLS to
Blunt their intelligence
To take care of others before themselves
To rely on men for things
To ignore their sexuality
Mothers? Stop letting your sons do their hobbies/sports before they clean up their areas and do chores.
In 2025 you STILL are doing this! YOU keep this going, not Dads. You are teaching your sons to think of YOU and their wives and DAUGHTERS as housemaids. A husband who expects his wife to stay home with the kids while he goes out to play, is DOOMING their marriage. Do you not remember in the beginning of your marriage, when hubby started to leave you alone with the kids all weekend and how LONELY you felt?
FIX THAT! Teach your daughters to not wait on men. To put their needs above others.
If you are a young wife and mom, read this post, its a blueprint of what actual womens lives are like. You need to fix it.: https://preesiinfowhore.blogspot.com/2017/12/dear-chauvanists.html
One of the number one reasons women get kidnapped, raped and hurt is cause girls are taught to push their feelings aside and to be nice to everyone they meet. You make them discount their inner feelings of danger....But its also the reason women end up giving in to men who abandon them for playdates with their buddies or Mancaves.
When you two start dating, if he does anything disrespectful. Leave..
MEN? When you leave us alone with the kids and house chores to go out “gallivanting”, WE feel lonely and neglected. Do you hear that? YOU HURT US! YOU. WE feel unwanted, unloved. Is that what you want?
Why do parents just give boys FANTASY toys and give girls HOUSEKEEPING toys?
That sets MEN up to constantly be in a dream world, where they are Race Car Drivers, Macho Cowboys with guns, Champion Baseball Players, Masculine Wrestlers, sports equipment, gocarts, wrestling figurines etc. These are all fantasy hobbies. They arent real. Most men will never attain those careers. The worst are men who play with R/C cars and Airplanes or Trains. Go get your real pilots license, or become a real train conductor.
Then they give girls baby dolls, cooking equipment, fake vacuums, high heels, fake Tinkerbell Make Up, Mirrors etc. Then you wonder why we have such horrible people like Paris, the Real Housewives and Kim K. All vapid, plastic people who do nothing for society. Raise Boys to be great adults, husbands and fathers, not Wrestlers and Cowboys. And Raise daughters to be fierce, intelligent CATCHES. Then that will fix future marriages.
Stop pushing
sexual double standards on Girls and Boys!
GIRLS are taught to
inspect their image in a mirror a lot and dress in dresses with fake
heels and fake make up. They are told to keep their legs closed while
sitting, and "dont get dirty" and their mother is
constantly pulling their dresses in place to cover their underwear …
This subtly translates as YOUR BODY IS NAUGHTY and needs covering.
Conservative Actor Mark Wahlberg was on Graham Norton talking about his raunchy Bear movie Ted, where he told Graham that his sons can see the movie but his daughter cant until shes 24 if ever.
What?
Look, as you read further in this post, you will come to find out that WOMEN need the MOST sexual education and help. Keeping sex education from GIRLS and women is exactly WHY women get fat, and become Karens.
Girls mature faster than Boys so you should be educating girls intensely. To protect them from rape, and bad unworthy boys and men.
Girls and Boys need LOTS of sex ed, not less.
Wow, in spite of Mark not wanting to see TED, she is still taking saucy selfies etc.
Boys on the other hand are never taught SEXUAL SELF CONTROL. This is why way more MEN are rapists and sexually aggressive. They dont have self control. I know a man who thought strippers OWED him sex for stimulating him. If men have no sexual self control they will harm women.
Doesnt anyone remember being a kid and starting to come of age and desperately wanting info to help you deal with your feelings? Sex education does not make kids want to have sex. It explains what is happening.
Imagine this. You are a young boy and you discover you have a penis and you like how it feels when you touch it. Your parents tell you nothing about sex. NOTHING. You dont know anything about sex or your body. Your mom catches you touching it and freaks out and tells you not to do that anymore that its wrong and bad. You start hating your penis and think you are evil when you go thru puberty. If you HATE your penis and think sexual feelings are EVIL and wrong, when a cute girl walks by and you become aroused, You will grow to hate WOMEN for making your body feel like that, This is how men hate women and hurt them. All because their dumb, uneducated, conservative parenting. This is why Josh Duggar looked at porn of babies being hurt and why he assaulted that stripper... His parents fucked him up!
I encourage boys and girls to both play the field, responsibly with books, testing and birth control. And masturbate and get to know themselves. BOTH boys and girls NEED to get to know who they are sexually before their marriage. People always think that this very LIBERAL advice is evil. Its NOT. Liberals have lower rates of divorce and teen pregnancy because of this. Liberals want long commitments and a fun sexlife. Why dont you?
Raise your sons to not need a woman for anything.
Likewise, quit teaching your daughters to rely on men. When I split with my ex, the best feeling is that I wasnt tied to him by money. Being completely free in a break up feels FANTASTIC. Being tied to an ex thru alimony and palimony is always having the band aid pulled off, over and over.
Im a Liberal and a Feminist....Women? I know you will hate this but...I dont agree with alimony or palimony. I think men and women should attend college or trade school and get a skill or degree under their belts so if their spouse dies, or leaves, they can recover quickly and not have to go thru long exhausting painful divorces and lawsuits. Nothing is better than a FREE AND CLEAR BREAK UP!!!
Look, even if you want to do YouTube, or be a stay at home mom, you should go to college for something and live in a Dorm away from your parents. Then get a job for awhile, save up some money,. It will be the best thing for you. Go to multiple parenting classes so you actually give great parenting advice because most of the SAHMs doing YouTube arent great parents. Strive to be better and actually know what you are talking about....
This is why a lot of women suck. They want to be feminine, helpless and taken care of like a child for life and then give advice to other women on YouTube or TikTok when if their hubbies died suddenly or cheated on them or left them. Theyd be too dumb to know what to do or how to support themselves and kids....
Women? If you want to be taken care of the rest of your life by an ex hubby, then you are a 6 yr old girl. You need to grow up
Its not sexy or cute to be dumb and helpless, unless its bedtime roleplay.
2
Couples who lie to each other and keep things from each other
Men and Women BOTH Suck Here.
Some men and women lie to each other from day one.
THIS IS NOT HEALTHY AND ITS NOT A GOOD RELATIONSHIP.
The only time you should lie to your spouse/partner is when you are trying to set up their Surprise Birthday Party, Proposal or Holiday Gift Or any other happy surprise.
Lying or keeping things from your spouse immediately means that you are not compatible.
A romantic relationship should be the one big place where you can be yourself and be open, free and vulnerable.
You cannot have a great sexlife LYING and Keeping things to yourself! LYING and keeping things from your spouse means you dont trust them to still love you when you tell the truth and spill the beans and secrets to them.
If you have no TRUST, you have no INTIMACY, you cant connect sexually.
If you are lying to each other, keeping things from each other, Not telling each other everything, If you cant talk to each other about sex, if you are afraid to ask for something in bed......
Then you are NOT compatible, you do not LOVE each other, There is ZERO Intimacy.
Id say half of all marriages in this world are bad, and mediocre. you all lied to yourselves to just have a partner in your life, ALL of you lied. You drone on year in, year out, and you lie even more to each other. Its a dance you do till you all die.
You all wake up, shower, eat breakfast, drink coffee, get dressed, get the kids fed and dressed and out the door to the bus, your kisses goodbye are chaste, You are happy when he goes to work, No smiles when you guys get home.
“Hey!”
and
“I made it in the Instant Pot”
“Time for bed kids”
Netflix and bed.....you have sex just to keep the lies going and so you still have a house.
The kids are boring and cookie cutters of all other mediocre marriages. You arent a compatible couple and you KNEW it from day one. Yet you got married anyway and brought 4 kids into the world that you arent thrilled with either.
AND you as a man will be escaping from your marriage and kids to go golfing or into a mancave........
AND you as a woman will escape into Online Sleuthing and Mommy Blogging, and The Bachelor or Real Housewives.....Or being a NextDoor App Nasty Nelly
I once saw a woman on a Mommies Board say that “Sex with my hubby is always painful, I am afraid to tell him....what should I do?” WHAT THE FUCK??????????? If you went thru dating, wedding, marriage and kids and home ownership and sex always hurts and you are afraid to tell him, you are in SERIOUS TROUBLE! Thats not a marriage! Thats slavery.
Im a Liberal and a Feminist and I want couples to be long termers and happy. I believe in monogamy.
3
Couples together for the wrong reasons
Men and Women are BOTH to Blame Here.
The WRONG reasons to get together:
To save money on rent
Cause I’m always at his/her apartment anyway.
Cause I’m pregnant.
Cause he/she says he/she loves me.
Cause I’m lonely and it will be nice to have someone.
Cause I lied to reel him in, now hes all mine.
Cause I need someone to take care of me.
Cause I need someone to take care of.
Cause I’m not gonna get anyone better.
Cause I can't find anyone else.
Cause all my friends have someone.
Cause I’ve gotta get out of my moms house!
The RIGHT Reasons to get Married/Live Together:
Cause I know she/he loves me and I love him/her.
We can tell each other everything.
I trust him/her completely
Cause we have been dating for years and I trust him, and weve survived several “storms” together.
Cause we agree on the fundamentals of life and raising children.
Cause we have the same morals and goals
Cause we are compatible.
Cause we have similar temperaments in ambition and temper.
Cause we have complimentary temperaments sexually and power wise
Cause we are both mature people who are settled and ready for adult responsibilities and we have the money.
Lets just even the playing field!!!!!!!!
Plus, Women hate when Men use them for pussy or as a housekeeper, BUT women USE men as a BANK. and to do things for them. Get their nails done etc. SugarDaddying. Its the same goddamn thing as men using YOU for sex and housework!
Make your fucking minds up. Do you want a great loving, intimate relationship or just as a goddamn transaction?
I choose the GREAT SEX and deep intimacy EVERY SINGLE TIME! I could live in a hovel as long as we had a great relationship and great sex.
4
Marrying/Moving In Together too young
Men and Women in the South are to blame.
That last sentence in the bottom list on #3 reads:
“Cause we are both mature people who are settled and ready for adult responsibilities.”
In the Northern states of the USA, the way you show you are a grown up is you generally go to college and/or establish yourself in a career and have money saved up, before getting married or having children.
In the Southern states of the USA, the way you show you are a grown up is you generally get married after high school and start to have kids.
Not to be political, but, the Red States have higher rates of Divorce, Teen Pregnancy and Violence.
The Blue States have lower rates of Divorce, Teen Pregnancy and Violence.
Its because they get married and start having kids before they actually are mature, whole people. And they are poor cause they have too many kids and no savings.
If you go straight from playing with toys and having no money into marriage and kids with no savings and education, you cant ever build generational wealth.
Men? Lets once again be BLUNT.
If you are still playing with toys (Video Games, GoCarts, ATVs, Going 4 Wheeling etc) after marriage, then you are too young and shouldnt have gotten married. The reason why, is, look, Im not saying Playing with these things as an adult is bad, go right ahead and do all those hobbies.
But get it all out of your system FIRST. Before you get married and have kids.
In the 1980s Atari 2600 debuted and I did play Video Games for awhile, But once I discovered boys, I had no use for the Atari. My goals were all adult. I wanted a career, to travel, and have a house and a man, dogs, entertaining friends, parties. Fun sex. Great food. I wanted to own a Corner News Stand. Maybe a few kids. I never really picked up Atari again... I grew out of toys when I was about 15-16. I dont recall my sister playing with toys at 16 either. She wanted a career in NYC.
It was the same with all 80s kids. Generally we played with toys and didnt commit to a partner or have kids right away. We got toys, gallivanting, and keggers and orgies out of our systems for the most part. We enjoyed it very much. Youve seen all our films from the 80s right!? And when it all started to wear thin and got boring, we then started to move away from toys, gallivanting, and keggers and wanted to start building an adult life.
In the 1980s when I was growing up, in suburban Philly, no boys and no girls wanted to get married and start having babies right outta High School. Hell no!. All the Boys and Girls wanted to go have fun, party, hang out with friends, keggers, go camping, have summer loves that blew away when the Fall winds picked up and play the dating field. In the 80s we were wild, Orgies, Threesomes, Partying, Keggers, Discoveries. 80s boys loved sexual women. PHOEBE CATES!!!
Glory Days!
But then we all started to grow out of those things, it started to not be so fun anymore and that was the sign to stop and get ready for marriage, kids and a house and life.
If you have to play with toys etc all night while your wife and kids are upstairs alone, and you could be with them bonding and loving them and showing them they are your fave things... and not be seducing your wife slowly and have hot sex after the kids go to bed, then you have a problem. You arent comparable, you are lying to her, you dont like being a Father and you need to grow up or get help for your addiction.
So, get all the Toys, Gallivanting, Sex Flings, Keggers, Camping, 4 Wheeling, Partying, and Video Games out of your system. And take the Tasmanian Devil stickers off of your car. No one cares! You think people care if you put “accessories” and a vanity plate on your car cause you are immature and immature people are self centered and narcissistic.
To women in the south who married too young: How many weeknights and weekends is he gone playing with toys with his buddies? Does he look past you when a Monster PickUp on a lift kit drives by? Whens the last time you felt truly loved and appreciated and had a real orgasm? Do you blame yourself?
Is that why you Southern Women have the best Carbohydrates in the world? Eating your feelings with your hair and nails did and a full face of perfect make up... HUGGS!
Sure, Mature Grown Ups occasionally might play a game or two, or go to a beer party, or go camping or to a girls/boys weekend. But it feels, (how do I phrase this?) less fun than it did as a teen.
As a dumb childish immature 18 yr old, in the 1980s, I thought I was cool driving my Red Jeep 80 MPH down Route 30 from Exton, Pa, Past Gap, Pa, and well into Lancaster, Pa at 3:00am with my windows wide open with Hard Core Gangsta Rap, and Prince Music at full volume. It was Amish Country in the 80s, before the Reality Tv Shows corrupted them. How dumb was I? :::::Shaking my datgum head::::
As an adult now I hate it when people drive past my house when it should be quiet. Ive grown up.
Being a mature, educated, grown up adult also means that you can take care of yourself, you are a functional independent adult and have built a life and job for yourself and you dont need anyone, but you want someone to share YOUR life with and vice versa.
Mature, educated, grown up Adult Men, dont need to restrict and control women. They want fun sex.
This is something men need to understand...
Girls need a period of their life from 16 to maybe 25 when they have wild lustful sex. Where they hook up at Keggers as a teen, or seduce their Professor in college and have some threesomes and fun shit like that. Dalliances! Secret memories that they can look back fondly at when they are older. This is how women find their sexual power.
You both need to get all the playtime out of your systems so you can be PRESENT in your Marriage..And your kids lives.
If you arent present in your spouses life and your kids lives, Then you will have an unhappy home and mediocre/fucked up kids.
Furthermore, if you dont like kids completely DONT HAVE THEM. Be a Grown Up and make an educated decision and dont have them. Be a grown up and admit that most kids these days are fucked up because their parents were too young, too uneducated, too ill equipt, not monetarily settled and poor.
Dont have kids if you dont want or love kids. Thats for BOTH men and women.
Men? You want women to use Birth control and for abortion to be legal. The more kids your wife has to take care of, the less sex you will get, then when shes 50, you will cheat with the bimbo at Applebees and she will divorce you and the cycle will continue with the Bimbo. You wont have a house anymore and she will dye her hair blonde, lose weight and hook up with Todd from Planet Fitness. Stop making laws to restrict women, asshole! It will bite you in the ass.
Comedian Bill Burr said on 2 occasions on Conan, that if you arent loving being a parent or married or having fun having kids, THEN ITS NOT FOR YOU! Dont have any more kids. No one is making you have kids. Go do something else for awhile, get all your playtime and toys and sports out of your system then re-evaluate.
Go look at Olivia Munn and John Mulaneys Instagram. They are both older parents, just like Bill Burr and Nia Hill and they ENJOY being at home with their children.
Elton John and Bernie Taupin both had children very late, they are said to be fantastic parents.
Think about that! Older parents, that have educations, established careers, money in the bank, are relaxed, dont have anything to prove, are far better happier parents then young naive struggling, uneducated parents.
Break the cycle. Dont get married or have kids until you are bored with toys and partying, & educated, with a job or career established.
I believe that the women in the South vote Republican cause they arent told healthy things about sex from their parents, and they have scanty sex ed from school and they dont know about the 75% factor (next chapter) and they get married too young and so that leads to thinking that “men like sex more than women and the women who do love sex are sluts and gays are evil and so forth."
So they vote against themselves.
This world needs to break these harmful cycles.
Furthermore, both men and women need time on your own, after high school to get your Sea Legs!
What this means is You Graduate High School and either go to College or get an apartment and live on your own. This time alone, teaches you so much. It teaches you to cook, clean your own home, pay bills and budget, schedule your life, RESPONSIBILITY!
It also teaches you to like yourself and build real self confidence in yourself and make good choices and take care of yourself. You learn many lessons. Like you go out on your own and you eat junk food and pizza for months, and then you start feeling bad and you make the decision to eat healthier. You look online and rely on yourself to solve your problems instead of Mom or Dad or spouse...
You need to have this time, dating, learning etc. After all if you dont learn to be an adult, then you will be a child in a marriage and you wont be able to parent properly.
Move out, get your Sea Legs, get all your playtime out of your system and then get married and have kids....
5
Anatomical Sexual Incompatibility
MENS ISSUE
Only the two and a half columns on the right are able to have orgasms from heterosexual vaginal sex. The others cant.
This chapter will be very hard for men to read. It will hurt their egos
75% to 80% of all women on earth cannot achieve orgasm from traditional heterosexual, vaginal sex because the clit is too far from the vaginal opening to get any meaningful friction. Also, the inside of the vagina has very few nerve endings, Most of womens pleasure comes from the front opening and the clit.
What this means is size doesnt matter. No ones Penises in the world can give 75% to 80% of all women in the world, orgasms. Most women fake it with you. 75% to 80% have never had an orgasm with you and they Fake It. Just having a penis doesnt make you a stud.
You are not a stud and you suck in bed for 3,600,000,000 of the 4,600,000,000 women on earth
None of the Viagra, Testosterone, Guns, Cars, Gym Days and Money will make us have an orgasm with your penis. You will have to put the work in and seduce us and assure we also cum too.
(Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGP98M7xlbE)
More facts:
In great relationships, men will assure their mate has an orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation or oral, but to be honest most women end up faking orgasm. Most orgasms we get are from vibrators, NOT men.
The big problem is that most women arent told this when they are young, and women dont talk about it with their friends because they are ashamed and think somethings wrong with them and they are afraid to admit it to them cause they dont wanna feel abnormal, so they end up not advocating for their pleasure and think they just arent good at sex and not sexual enough. And if women dont know cause no one tells them, then MEN certainly dont know about the 75%-80% thing. So, men are a bit ignorant and they are afraid of being weak. They are too ego driven to understand that for 75%-80% of women will never get pleasure from their cocks no matter how big they are.
Now, Im not saying that women dont feel pleasure from intercourse, we do. But not orgasms.
NO....
Now, in order to feel SOME pleasure from intercourse, we need to be super horny. And that is NOT going to happen when we have a house, kids and a job after we have done all the chores, got the kids down, got a shower, feel all clean and their man comes in after playing video games all night in the mancave, ignoring us.. Stop ignoring us. If you dont like to be with us let us go so we can find a compatible mate and you can find someone you want to spend time with. Why is that so hard to admit and do? Its only hard for immature men. Grow up.
Ignore me all night then want a Quickie...
We get ZERO pleasure from QUICKIES. Our libido engines just cant get started quick enough after a full busy hectic day, with puking babies, a flat tire and being left alone all evening with you in the mancave, to get any kind of pleasure from quickies.
This is why repealing Roe V Wade will backfire on you. The more kids we are made to have, the less pleasure we will get from sex. And the less women will want to be with a man. GOOD GOING!
Its also why men who say, “Yeah, just give them Lezbos some cock so they like it” Raping lesbians will NOT make them like it.
Chocolate Commercials are geared towards womens PLEASURE, cause they know that men arent giving them any pleasure.
This is why women turn into Karens and get fat and stop blowing you. We end up seeking alternate pleasure sources and we get frustrated and bitter. Thats why all the women on the Aldi subreddit are all posting orgasmically about any carb or dairy product that gets on Aldi shelves. They dont advocate for themselves sexually and theyve replaced sex with FOOD.
What sex is like for women in the 75%...
So imagine this, All week (statistically women are still doing 80% of the domestic chores) your wife, who you said you LOVED till Death Do You Part, has had the kids and house chores to deal with. She's had no time to think or dream or reset her self. Before you got married your favorite way to unwind and relax was spending time together and talking and having sex. NOW, you dart off to a mancave to avoid her and your kids, WHY?
Then when you emerge from your cave late at night, you climb in bed with her and want sex. Shes taken a shower and settled down after a hard day and is ready to drift off to sleepyland. But she lets you have sex so she can go to sleep. Then the sex is mediocre and no one is happy or fulfilled and y'all are angry. Then your wife starts getting resentful that you don't care about her and don't wanna spend time with her and she starts eating her feelings and shutting down and gets fat then YOU go and cheat with that bimbo at Applebees. A lot of marriages drone on with mediocre sex and quickies and if womens anatomies are keeping them orgasmless/pleasureless, think about how frustrating it is for a woman with 4 kids and a busy schedule to only have time for quickies and mediocre sex. If the sex isn't yielding an orgasm for her regularly when you guys aren't rushed, then think about how a quickie feels! It just feels like a transaction instead of Hot Sex. It feels like NOTHING!
Meanwhile you are having all the orgasms and shes having nothing!
Meanwhile you are having all the orgasms and shes having nothing!
Meanwhile you are having all the orgasms and shes having nothing!
AND you run and tell the Mistress from Applebees that your wife got fat, wont blow you, is frigid and doesnt like sex.
(Or... nowadays you are going on Craigs list and getting a gay man to blow you once a week... Ive seen all your posts and comments. Im an observant person....lol)
Meanwhile your wife is eating herself to death, immersing herself in True Crime and Internet Flame Wars and secretly reading 50 Shades of Grey, dreaming of being Anastasia.
Then you vote for Trump and try and take our rights away and make us have all these babies.
This one thing, I think, is the NUMBER ONE symptom of Incompatiblity In Relationships. And why men and women have so many issues in the entire world.
A man once said to me, “Why do we have to Help women have orgasms? Why?” Im like, “You use our bodies to have YOUR orgasms, why shouldnt you help us to cum with YOUR body?'
Do you want a lifeless sexpartner who just lays there, or do you want a hot sexy woman who worships you? Mister Man!
If you dont want to seduce us, and have meaningful sex with us, then YOU DONT LOVE US! Leave, go find your real soul mate, and let us find a man who wants to do those things.... If you dont wanna make us cum, then go buy an Accujack and stay single. Oh sorry, a Flesh.light!
Havent you noticed that when that Fat, BJ adverse, Frigid ex wife of yours who you said didnt like sex, divorced you, that she lost all the weight, dyed her hair blonde, got sexy and fit and now has a happy 2nd marriage? You ignored her Dude.
What is the solution?
And women quit talking about guys having little dicks, it doesnt matter.
6
Men with deep insecurities/Toxic Masculinity
Im gonna say some things that might deeply hurt or offend some men.
YOU are the reason for MOST of the problems in the world.
Most completely HETEROSEXUAL men are toxic.
With your violence, Rape, Guns, fights, Wars etc You are Violent and Toxic!
Everything you men do is for sex and the acquisition of pussy. So you act all macho.
Some Men think that being on the receiving side of sex is the weak side or we are pussies...That getting penetrated is inferior and being the fuckER is superior..
Heterosexual macho conservative men cant understand why a man would be happy to be fucked by another man. They just cant understand it. They also say things derogatory about women in the bottom position.
This is why they aren't good lovers to women. they cant relate.
If there is a fuckER, there has to be a fuckEE.
Its symbiotic. One isn't truly lesser than the other. The fuckER needs the fuckEE. The fuckEE needs the fuckER.
Men look at women as lower than them. They look down at gay men who are bottoms too.
Maybe the reason that some men look down upon fuckEES is because they dont feel they are worthy of the fuckEEs adoration?
"Why do you like me so much? Im nothing!"
Actor Rupert Everett said that all men should be penetrated ONCE, to know what it's like for women.
I believe that there are men out there who are indeed 100% heterosexual and they ARE NOT good lovers for most women. I think that in order to be a great fuck/lover to women, you have to understand women, you must understand the submissive side of sex and what makes women tick sexually. So I think men who are about 90% Hetero and 10% Homosexual are better for women. Men who are 100% Heterosexual cant dress themselves, they cant decorate a home, they dont have any rounded edges.
100% Heterosexuals cannot fathom that being submissive, or liking how getting fucked feels. Or how being a gay man and be totally owned by another man feels.
Note: Taking a side street here then I'll come back and get on the Main Street...
Listen carefully...
Heterosexual macho conservative men cannot understand why a man would
wanna get tied up and whipped by another man...
So I'll help them to understand....
BDSM isn't evil or bad nor does it indicate someone is a sexpest.
BDSM is simply Bungy Jumping Sex! Sex where all your senses are awake,
you are desperately horny, you will be edged, fucked, slapped, whipped and
you will cum a lot and be thrown off the bridge, and the RUSH when you
survive!
Submissives are strong marathon runners...
Most Heterosexual macho conservative men would crumble being a submissive.
They also dont understand that the CUCKHOLD has all the power in the relationship.
He CHOSE to be the cuckhold! Being a “cuck” is voluntary. The wife and the other man
are the submissives, the cuck is in charge! If you cant understand the deep psychology behind “cucking” then you are never gonna satisfy a woman, cause once again you are looking down on the bottom position.
Back on Main Street...
So let's return to my first 2 points
I also think that some very heterosexual conservative men, are sexually insecure.
They talk a good game about being manly and alpha and masculine. But they've never experimented and tried anal with their girl or anything else.
I mean if you're alpha and sexual and manly WHY do you not get what sex is or how sex works?
Why havent you been reading, devouring and learning about everything SEX?
Why are you more a NUN, then Jason Momoa?
This is why YOU abandon your wife and kids for hobbies. You are scared of sex.
Why aren't you spending all your waking hours seducing your wife?
A big bad ALPHA, Virile, Macho Man should be leaving sweaty, glowing breathless SATISFIED women in their wake.
Instead, you put us down, call us lessor than you, think we are your servants!
Cant even make your wife cum.
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Womens Toxic Femininity
Womens Faults
Im gonna say something very controversial here.
Im gonna say some things that might deeply hurt or offend some women.
YOU are the reason for a lot of your own problems in the world.
Most super feminine and delicate women are toxic.
Some, MOSTLY White women systematically look down upon other women who stand up strongly against men. We get called manly, feminazis, homosexuals, manhaters. We get told that if we strongly stand up against abusive men, that "Thats why you arent married' or "Thats why you cant get a man"...
You voted for Hitler and Trump.
Some women, will let men get away with everything cause they dont want to appear manly or aggressive. They NEED to play the submissive feminine housewife. Then they talk bad about women who do fight to stop all this nonsense. This is why white women hate Meghan Markle and love Kate Middleton.
They cant understand why a woman wouldnt want to be a Royal with a Tiara and a Throne. Cause that is all theyve ever wanted. Go on Walkabouts! Gimme a break. They want VAPID lives. Nevermind that Meghan gave Harry the strength to leave his narcissistic abusive family and stood up for his wife!
Harry is the real man, William is a pussy, and Kate is braindead.
Some white women feel that black women are “vulgar” and therefore they cannot for the life of them get why "Their" white Prince (Harry) would like a “vulgar” black woman.
One difference between black and some white women is the fact that black women are secure in being sexual. Even churchgoing black women dress snazzy and are less uptight! Some white women are afraid to be sexual. They NEED to present as submissive, sweet, almost fragile, feminine angels. Its the only thing they have. They get so deep into not being assertive or stand up for themselves and being helpless and CHILDLIKE that they completely mute their sexuality.
They vote for Trump cause they are afraid their White Girl Victimhood Card will be cancelled if they vote liberal and some white women have no "there there" and they need to fake they are a victim. Yes Blake I said it.
These women are prudes who dont like cursing. They dont want you to call it a Pussy, “its a vagina!”
They chide you for talking dirty or joking about sex, Sex is missionary and they dont like blowjobs even before marriage.
These are grown women who are over 18 yrs old, have graduated High School and College, Had 9-5 jobs, got married, ran a house and had children. They are not SEXUAL WOMEN, they are children playing house, who want to be taken care of by a substitute Daddy. Just like men who want their wives to be substitute Mommies.
Both
The women who want substitute Daddies
and
The men who want substitute Mommies
Are holding the world back!
And Im not talking about AGEGAP relationships
GROW THE FUCK UP!
They hurt normal women who want to have good healthy sexlives and be independent and strong..
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Emotional Homosexuality
Theres a swath of men in the world who get married to women and then abandon them for a never ending calendar of "Guys Weekends" and anytime anyone calls they will jump and go help a friend. This is because they dont LOVE their wives and they are not interested in them. They abandon them at every chance they get. They love being with their guy friends doing guy things, camping, GoCarts, video games, sports, football, watching wrestling. Bonding over wins and losses, Slapping each others butts.
When these men go away together like to camping or fishing trips
or a NASCAR packaged vacation, They can get up on time, shower,
straighten up the hotel, take their medications, make food, eat and
make all appointments, clean the hotel and take out the trash before
turning in the keys at the front desk. They drag their feet at home
to do any of that. Its because they are happier being with men.
At home with their wives, they play dumb, they make excuses to not
do things, they tune their wives out, they will show up for their
kids school activities, but as soon as its over they have something
to do with the guys. The only time they dont try to skip out on her
is for sex...
So I propose a new sexuality.
Men who are Physically attracted to women (heterosexual), but
emotionally attracted to men (homosexual) They like to have sex with
woman, but they are in love with and bonded emotionally with
men.
What these men should do is buy an apartment complex and
move in and have maids come clean and pick up after them and get
BlueApron to send food and hire prostitutes. Put up all the NASCAR
posters with duct tape they want. Clear the field in back of the apts
and make a GoCart track. Stay home, slap butts, eat cheesesteaks and
tomahawk steaks, drink beer, leave the toilet seat up 24/7 etc
You dont LIKE WOMEN.
Admit it!
You might be sexually attracted to women, but not emotionally attracted to them.
However, I think Women can also be Emotionally Homosexual.
Miss Alicia was romantic, petite, curvy and never dirty.
Ms Sally was athletic, tall and Sexy,
Miss Alicias hubby plays golf and camps and fishes with his
buddies A LOT.
Alicia doesn't want to get dirty she stays home a lot with her girlfriends, Her and her hubby mainly do extended family things and go out to dinner
Sex has to be romanced out of them. But not real romance, artificial romance, like buying flowers etc (Note: Real romance is slow, nuanced and full of all day connections and texts.) Any Shmo can buy flowers.
Alicia hates the word PUSSY and she has to shower immediately
after sex. She doesn't wear a lot of pants.
Ms Sally and her hubby love to do things together, They go out
every weekend alone or with friends to concerts or ballgames, they
sit around and play card games all night, and compete. They go to the
gym together. This is all foreplay and even at 50 they still hold
hands.
People always say that the feminine woman is the ideal and being a mans man is the goal, but both of them as a couple together are Emotionally homosexual.
Miss Alicia doesn't wanna go out and do anything her hubby likes, shed rather be with her GFs and in her house with A/C. She gets all her emotional needs from her friends and babies, Shes emotionally a lesbian
Her Mans man hubby doesn't wanna do anything she likes either. Hed rather be out golfing, or camping or drinking beer in the basement with buddies. He gets all of his emotional needs from his buddies and mans activities. He is Emotionally Homosexual.
Theres no opportunity for any slow seduction. No spontaneity.
Miss Alicia needs romance, she has to be "ready". Miss Alicia never flirts with her hubby, instead she chides him for being dirty.
Ms Sally and her hubby enjoy doing everything together. She will wear shorts and a tank to help him in the yard or boat. If he says something sexual jokingly, she jokes back. She doesn't need the same type of romance that Miss Alicia does.
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Men Who Dont Like Sex
Men?
Im gonna be very very blunt.
I think there are some of you who dont like or want sex.
I think you want people to believe you are an Alpha, Macho, Masculine Man, but you put that thru a Conservative and/or Christian Mask. You hide behind this mask to prevent your friends and family and public at large from finding out that sex isnt a priority and you only do it for utilitarian purposes. You are like Jerry Seinfeld who has an opportunity to have a threesome and cant follow thru.
You arent sexual, thats why sexual women frighten you and you try to control them. You guys are the most frightening men out there.
And if you have an ED, you will end up hurting women.
Please get help. Women arent your problem Bryan.
Go get a make over, a diet, go to charm school, go to a Doctor, and a Therapist.
Dont trap some woman into a lonely sad life.
There is 1 subset:
The Self Hater
This is a subset of Men who see sexual things (porn, naked women, sex scenes in movies, things like that) and they DO get very aroused and its angers them. I think it makes them feel vulnerable and out of control and thats why it angers them and they try to ban gays, sexual women etc.
They do have sex, but only as a utility.
Why are macho, conservative, hetero men so scared of sexual women?
Why do they WANT their women pregnant and pious?
I think these men want the outside world to think they are Macho and Virile
BUT its a mask for their ultimate disinterest in sex and prudishness.
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Women Who Dont Like Sex
Likewise, there are women out there who just dont like sex.
Im gonna be very very very blunt, Im not saying these things to be mean, Im saying them because I am a people watcher and I understand humans and human sexuality
I think in order to be sexy, you have to be thought of as sexy...
You have to have got “THE LOOK” from someone early on. You needed to be desired. And theres lots of men and women out there that can get horny, but they dont feel sexy, so I think this causes awkwardness in the bed department and if you are part of the 75% of women who cannot achieve orgasm from heterosexual sex, you think you just arent a sexual being. And you will resent women who are very sexual and you will be mean to them.
I think in order to be sexy, you have to be thought of as sexy and if no one is looking at them, they feel unsexy, and this is why women like Jennifer Aniston, Shes like that “Friend of your Aunts” who is bland and “nice” looking and will have lunch with you and gossip, but you never have to worry about her getting all the attention from other tables as you sit and have that lunch.
Thats why you hate Angelina Jolie
What happens if you keep feeling unsexy and non sexual, is that it eventually becomes permanent. You get married to a nice man, have a few kids, a house etc and because you dont feel sexy and you are one of those 75%ers you have convinced yourself you dont care about sex. You will pour all your sunshine into the kids and the house and all of a sudden you are 40 yrs old and your female testosterone is fading and when the hubby cheats or leaves or you leave, you dont have that Post Divorce Slutty Sexlife.
You become a GREY BLOB.
I see these women out there, no color, no joy, no life, just an endless life of drudgery of kids, and cooking and cleaning. No one treats them like WOMEN, they are just DRONES.
I feel horrible for them.
I think most sexless women are like this...BUT
Some White women have gotten so deep into being feminine and “Lil Wifey” that they have lost any depth, or trace of being interesting, or red blooded sexuality. They are brain dead. They are a pretty doll on the shelf, dont touch them cause if they fall they break cause they are hollow inside.
There are 2 Transactional subtypes
The Church Lady & The Jewelry Fucker
The Church Lady is so deep into her religion and how submissive and unsexual she can be, BUT hubby gets sex regularly cause shes submitting for God and refuses to see that shes in a Throuple and she should kick God and Jesus and The Holy Ghost OUT of her bed. Its Man and Wife, not Man and Wife and God. She submits and never enjoys it, No blow jobs. Hates normal women who wear sexy clothes and thinks everything is a Sin. Put down the Bible, go get a make over, buy a vibrator and go see Chippendales.
The Jewelry Fucker is ultra feminine and dainty, doesnt curse, only wears dresses and skirts, only has missionary sex, and only when she gets romanced, taken to dinner, given flowers and Jewelry. She fucks for jewelry. Men are with these women cause they are feminine and dainty, and she gives his friends, family and the public at large, good optics, thus fulfills his ego. Their hubbies cheat with the secretary.
BOTH of these are not truly sexual. They are transactional. One fucks for god, the other fucks to get baubles and bragging rights from her friends and thus she fucks for admiration and to make other women jealous of her new jewelry, curio or vacation.
Dont women want hot sexlives?
I dont get women who "lock" themselves into a guy who wont satisfy them.
Do they like sex? Or do they pick these men who they know will not satisfy them cause they hate sex too?
So lets combine all of the above into one.
Educate Yourself about sex,
Be open minded
Kick God out of your bedroom
Get Educated On Everything
Dont get married until you grow up
Dont treat women like they are lesser than you.
Go find intimacy, and couples classes
Break up if you dont really love them or arent attracted to them.
Dont have children until you are an adult.
Quit being so feminine and fragile WOMEN
Quit being so afraid to be vulnerable MEN.
Raise your sons to be the husband you want to send out to the world
Raise your daughters to be self assured sexual strong women who advocate for themselves.
BUT, in the end, the last one is what is causing the
issues between Men and Women...at least right now in 2025:
The big corporations monopolizing all the jobs and paying shit wages so that money is always tight and young couples cant get their heads above water and it makes things tense.
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