Ive figured out homophobia and sexism

 

 Ive figured out homophobia and sexism

Okay look, I think I've figured out why some men are homophobic, and its the same reason some men are sexist...

The biggest reason is anal and vaginal sex.  

Throughout the eons, the way men have insulted people, they view as less than them, is by calling them Gay or PUSSIES, or referring to people they dont like as girls or fags. They also use the words Screwed, Fucked, Cuck and Suck as insults meaning LESS THAN and WEAK and BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF.

Men? Why do you do this? This clearly shows what you think of WOMEN & Gay MEN who get SCREWED, FUCKED and who SUCK. And of Straight Married Men who are Cuckolds...

You think our sexual involvement is INFERIOR.

So why would we want a man who thinks we are inferior? 

"Durrrrrrr, I am obsessed with Pussy and girls, yet I think they are weak and lower than me cause they let me fuck em"

Straight bigoted men do not get why any man would want to be submissive, a gay bottom, or a woman OR a male cuckold for that matter.

They dont understand it! They are so closed off emotionally and so insecure sexually and uneducated sexually that they truly cant expand their mind to understand why one person wants to BE vulnerable and lay down and let someone else take control and how delicious it is to feel anticipation before sex. How delicious it is to find a rare competent lover who is skilled at sex and who owns us completely, sexually, mentally and physically all at once...

 

Heterosexual macho conservative men cant understand why a man would be happy to be fucked by another man. They just cant understand, they also say things derogatory to women in the bottom position.
This is why they aren't good lovers to women. they cant relate to women!!!! 

"If you cant understand women, then you will never satisfy one sexually" 

The big thing in life for many homophobic men is to feel masculine. This is why they are afraid of gay men. Gay men make them feel uneasy and suspicious because they cant understand why a man doesn't have being masculine and macho as a priority. They just cant understand. 

This is why they display their guns, have big trucks, have Alpha Internet Nicknames, its their ENTIRE IDENTITY! Just like women who end up being prudes have sexual feminine internet identities like SoftWhispers or AngelMoans. 

They are so wrapped up in being Macho or Feminine they have spent zero effort on their actual personality and identity. They are sexually shallow people.

They especially cannot understand why a man wants to let another man fuck him. Because they think to be fucked is to be weak. So they must also think that of the women they fuck, right?
Thats why all these straight men use the words, Fucked, and Screwed as an INSULT meaning "I got taken advantage of"...

So feeling macho and manly is the number 1 priority for many homophobic men.
But they dont get that the construct of masculinity is false, its not real. Just like Femininity is false.
Its all taught, You put a girl in a dress and a bow in her hair and tell her she has to keep her legs crossed and covered by her dress and dont get dirty...you tell her "shes so pretty in her bow", programs girls with feminine constructs and narcissism. Likewise 10 yr old boys are sugar sweet, loving and kind, until "Dad" tells them to start toughening up, be a man! And his school friends peer pressure him into becoming a jerk in their young adulthood.
Men will say that "Men arent touchy feely or into their emotions", but thats bullshit. When they were boys 10-11 they were sweet, huggy, loving, and talked about their feelings. So its bullshit.
Not all men become macho jerks, but many do. They need to do this cause they haven't evolved to see women as equal beings and develop their actual personalities. Its boring.

• Men are stronger than women, yes.
• Women give birth and have periods, yes. 
• Men have penises, yes. 
• Women are more emotional then men, yes.
• Women get fucked, yes.

BUT that doent mean they are UNEQUAL.
Most women can't pass the firefighter physical test, but that doesnt mean you dont let them try.

Women are not your lessor half, they are your equal half. They get equal choices. 

Let me help you bigoted sexist men understand this better:

Dear Heterosexual Men Of The World,

For hundreds of thousands of millennia heterosexual men have waged wars, raped, killed, destroyed countries, ETC

Just for the acquisition of ONE THING

SEX!

Sex with women.

Pussy.

They spend most of their lives trying to get pussy.

They spend all their lives obsessed with their penises.

They spend all their lives trying to prove their virility and machoness.
The Olympics, Football, Buying Sports cars, making money, going to the gym, buying a McMansion, etc etc etc.

Their entire lives are spent putting Pussy On a pedestal..........

And then you spend your lives, avoiding that pussy and telling her shes weak and less than you.

Men and Women, Yin and Yang, Salt and Pepper. We are EQUAL, We are NOT inferior!

If there is a fuckER, there has to be a fuckEE.

Its symbiotic. One isn't truly lesser than the other. The fuckER needs the fuckEE.

Men look at women as lower than them. They look down at gay men who are bottoms too.

Why do you homophobes and sexists think that the receiving side is being done to us because we are weak or pussies?

Actor Rupert Everett said that all men should be penetrated ONCE, to know what it's like for women. I agree.

I believe that there are men out there who are indeed 100% heterosexual and they ARE NOT good lovers for most women. I think that in order to be a great fuck to women, you have to understand women and what makes them tick sexually. So I think men who are about 90% Hetero and 10% Homosexual are better for women. Men who are 100% Heterosexual cant dress themselves or decorate the house. They have zero nuance or depth.

This is the reason so many women are attracted to gay male Tops. Most gay male Tops have still at one time in their life, been penetrated and understand why women want it.  

Jack understands women, Id fuck Jack in a second.

100% Heterosexuals cannot fathom that being submissive, or liking how getting fucked feels. How being totally owned by another man feels.

Maybe the reason that some men look down upon fuckEES is because they dont feel they are worthy of the fuckEEs adoration?
"Why do you like me so much, Im nothing?"

Lets delve deeper into things Homophobes think...

First lets talk about "that act". 

All of us on earth (Priests to SexWorkers to Mafiosos to Librarians) ALL have put our fingers up our asses when we were younger, to dislodge poop, okay?

We all have done it. I'll go back to this in a bit.

I've done some research and found that research says that people who LOVE Anal sex, enjoyed holding poop and pee in when we were younger. It's pleasurable for some people and for others its squarely NOT. I did it all.the.time. I love anal.

Ill return to that in a bit...

Also, there's a few things that I've heard homophobes or people who don't like gay men, say

1) Gay men have to use drugs (aka Poppers) to "take" an assfucking
2) The "Daddy" Thing, is immoral.
3) That bottoms, subs and cuckolds are weak pussies who have been taken advantage of by the Dom, Top or Bull.
4) Anal Hurts and is Weird. Its an exit not an entry.
5) Eating ass is disgusting/Fudgepacking

Lets Discuss #1

First, Straight Homophobic Men need to understand what Poppers do. Poppers are a heart relaxer drug, they relax the smooth muscle. One day long time ago a Dr recommended them to their gay patients who struggled with overly tight holes. And the rest is history. So it was a prescribed drug. Now before you say, "Durrr, that just proves things shouldnt go up the butthole"!!! Well, there are a lot of women out there who also struggle with overly tight vaginas too, so tightness isn't just a gay male issue. There are a lot of women for whom sex is always painful. So does that mean that women shouldnt have sex either? Yes, there is a small "high" to Poppers that's fun, so it's become a part of gay culture. But most men don't really need them, they are just fun. Like smoking a joint before sex with your girl.

Lets Discuss #2

Second, most homophobes aren't deep enough to understand that the "Daddy" thing isn't about the "I" or "P" words, its about establishing a very sensitive, deep, vulnerably open caring relationship between consensual unrelated adults. I had a completely committed, totally consensual and legal Dominant Daddy (i was 34, He was 55) relationship in the early 2000s and it was so emotionally and sexually fulfilling. I felt cared for and loved. I totally could be myself, a sweet submissive nympho "Princess"...  The Daddy thing or Zaddys isnt illegal or evil, its just like a 20 yr old woman wants to be with George Clooney or Jeff Goldblum. Younger gay male bottoms also dream of an older handsome gay Top whisking them away and having his way with them too. 

To fully address Number 3, Ill have to take a side street then I'll come back and get on the Main Street...

Just like homophobic, sexist, racist men think that being a fuckEE or Gay Bottom is weak and they are pussies Homophobic men also cannot understand why a man would wanna get tied up and whipped by another man...(Even if they fantasize about Dominating a woman in bed)
So I'll help them to understand....
BDSM isn't evil or bad nor does it indicate someone is a sexpest.
Real BDSM is simply Deeply Emotionally Fulfilling, Deeply Intimate, Bungy Jumping Sex! Sex where all your senses are awake, you are desperately horny, you will be edged, fucked, slapped, whipped and you will cum a lot and be thrown off the bridge, and the RUSH when you survive!
Submissives are strong marathon runners...

Homophobic Men also dont understand that the CUCKHOLD has all the power in the relationship.

He CHOSE to be the cuckhold! Being a “cuck” is voluntary. The wife and the other man are the submissives, the cuck is in charge! If you cant understand the deep psychology behind “cucking” then you are never gonna satisfy a woman, cause once again you are looking down on the bottom position.

SUBMISSIVES, WOMEN, GAY BOTTOMS and HETEROSEXUAL CUCKHOLDS go into these relationships fully consensually! They are not being taken advantage of, they are not some weak willed pussies, they are 100% freewilled, and they happily sign up to go into these relationships. Calling someone a CUCK as an insult means you are dumb as a box of rocks and childish and bad in bed.

The majority of STRONG WOMEN in society today love the release of being a strong intelligent woman in life and at work, but the overwhelmingly delicious release of being submissive in bed.

(Cite: https://drloribethbisbey.com/sex-spoken-here-strong-women-and-bdsm/)

On a side note, thats why most strong women are let down by men. We strong, intelligent women want a very very hot, creative sexlife with a man who is as strong as us. My late Dominant could make me cum from just talking to me, we were so in tune with each other. I miss him every second of every day.  Personally I want a living god to worship, but most men nowadays would rather escape to a mancave or use their fingers on a video game controller rather than building an emotionally deep, intimate sexual relationship WITH THEIR OWN WIVES!

Like Elaine said to George, "YOURE BALD!" I say to homophobic men who hate strong woman and think Cucks are pussies...  

"YOU ARE NOT HAVING GOOD SEX! YOU DONT KNOW HOW TO SEXUALLY PLEASE YOUR WIFE! YOUR WIFE IS GETTING FAT AND BECOMING A KAREN CAUSE SEX WITH YOU SUCKS! FOOD IS HER ALTERNATIVE TO GOOD SEX! MEANWHILE YOU ARE IN YOUR MANCAVE PLAYING WITH TOYS! CUCKS AND GAY MEN ARE HAVING GREAT SEXLIVES!"

ITS YOU WHO ARE WEAK! You are so deathly afraid of being intimate and vulnerable that you ruin your own marriages and lives. You are the common denominator....

For Eons now you push women aside when we try to talk to you about our relationship and sex etc and you continuously marginalize us and call us Hens or Feminazis or Karens or whatever derogatory term you think up to ridicule us. YOU are the ones who are weak and afraid. You shoot yourself in your own damn foot, when WE JUST WANT A DEEP LOVING HOT RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU!

Grow Up! Stop dating for awhile until you are ready to have a grown up relationship. Its not weak to admit you still wanna have fun with your friends. Get the toys and playtime out of your systems. At the same time, go read some sex books, go to therapy, watch movies, DO SOMETHING to better yourself. Learn about women. You dont buy a new electronic device without reading the manual. Read some manuals before getting into a relationship.

Because the USA is so uneducated on sex, men are now suspicious of any kinks. They are afraid of things like cuckolding cause they are uneducated. Listen up. My father was a feminist and a swinger. He had 4 girlfriends when he was killed by the drunk driver. He had keys to the Playboy Clubs. He was a ladies man. He READ VORACIOUSLY. Women loved him cause he had educated himself and wasnt scared of sex. He wanted it all. So start buying books and reading,

Back on Main Street...

Lets Discuss #4,

Some of us, when we were younger, enjoyed holding our poop and pee, cause it felt good.
And some men, when they put their fingers up their asses, had a lot of pain. And some men, when they experience pain, it deeply upsets and angers them.

I think that those men, who had pain when they put their finger up their ass, also didn't like holding their poop and pee and also believe that ALL men and ALL women have constant pain while getting fucked up the ass and this is why they think gay sex and thus gay men are fucked up and they are suspicious and sick and evil. 

This is ridiculous! Anal and vaginal is a little painful the first time. But after that, not really And once again you are so scared of being gay that you are afraid of your own asses to find out if you would even like it. Did you just hear what I said? YOU ARE AFRAID OF YOUR OWN ASS!

Things Homophobic, Racist, Sexist "Heterosexual" Men are afraid of:

1. Gays
2. Black People
3. Immigrants
4. Liberals 
5. Women
6. Their own Asses
7. Cuckholds
8. Listening to gay singers
9. Sexual Women
10. Learning how to have a better relationship with women.
11. Being weak
12. Being seen buying tampons 

So who is the weak one? 😕 

As for the phrase homophobes use all the time, "Its an exit not an entrance"? What are you 6 yrs old? A mouth is for eating and talking, so dont let a woman give you a blow job!" You are immature and shouldnt have sex until you grow up. 

I also think that some very heterosexual conservative men, aren't sexual. They talk a good game about being manly and alpha and masculine. But they've never experimented and tried anal with their girl or anything else.
I mean if you're alpha and sexual and manly WHY don't you seem to like sex? If you are a real alpha and a virile sexual animal, YOU should be THE one having all the sex, all the kinks. Instead you are alpha and sexual in your imagination only.

I offered an old boyfriend a threesome with me and my ex girlfriend and he said NO.

Do you even like sex?
Is this why you all abandon your wife and kids for hobbies.
Why aren't you spending all your waking hours seducing your wife?

This is why you are suspicious of gay men, cause gay men love sex UBER ALLES!

I think you use homophobia and conservativism to MASK, your disinterest in sex.

Straight men always say about gay men, "why not just find a woman?"

DURRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!

Guess what? Some gay men dont want to FUCK but they want to be fucked.
It fulfills them to find a great man to be with and give him pleasure, worship him, take care of him. They want to be Princesses, centers of their mans universe. Top and bottom, Yin Yang. FuckER FuckEE. 

As I wrote above, I am a strong, intelligent, sexual woman, Im also a submissive and I want a Great Man to worship and be His Princess. 

Homophobes cant get why a man wants to be submissive to another man. They immediately call the submissive gay man weak and a pussy....

Yet these same men will WORSHIP and adore other men, like Trump. If a straight homophobic guy met Dale Earnhardt and Dale asked them to be his personal assistant they all would jump at the chance. You'd bow your head and say "Yes Dale" over and over dealing with Dales temper and eating his shit. I think its way more weak to do THAT, then to have a sexual relationship with another man.

A gay bottom worships and gets worshipped.  Yin and Yang.

Go look at what the Top of the HGTV gay couple Nate Berkus and Jeremiah Brent says about Jeremiah on Instagram. Nate says that Jeremiah is his everything. the one who makes our world go around. Jeremiah IS Nates everything. 

Thats what straight men dont get about WOMEN. Women want to be the center of your world, but somewhere along the way you stopped doing that.

She wanted to worship you, make you the center of her universe and you failed her by neglecting her .......

Conservative men with toxic false ideas of masculinity seem to not understand sex. They adhere to false ideas of women and of womens roles in bed. They never see women as EQUAL in bed. They outright think that womens sexual role in bed is of a helper, to get THEM off. When sex should be equal.
50/50 just because a woman is in the position to get fucked does NOT mean shes a doormat or being taken advantage of.

YIN AND YANG! 

Finally lets Discuss #5

Eating ass is Disgusting/Fudgepacking

First, women pee from the sex organ you are obsessed with. The Vag is right near the butthole. So the likelihood that your penis has come into contact with her pee and some errant poop is overwhelmingly likely. So if you do oral on her YOU have had those 2 things in your mouth at some point. So what makes gay sex different is that most gay bottoms are very very clean people. They douche (sometimes for 30 mins or more cause they want to be very desirable and clean and edible.

So no, there is usually no fudge to eat or pack.

Lets get into it deeper...

Religion tells you not to look behind the closed door and to suspend belief in NATURE.
If you invited the entire town to come to the High School Football field and strip. No ones body would be the same as anyone elses. People have all kinds of hair colors, lengths, styles, their skins different, their eye color is different, Fat, Skinny, tall, short. no ass, big ass, big feet, small feet, big nose, small nose, some people smile with gums showing, others smile only with their bottom teeth. Why is it so hard to get that all kinds of things can occur during a pregnancy that changes the fetus in addition to DNA and genetics.

The fact is that most people nowadays dont even know what is involved in sexual attraction and human sexuality.

Its so complex...It involves

• Eyes
• Ears
• Pheromones
• The Mind

Everyone is attracted to different people, based on their personal preferences. I knew someone who thought Brad Pitt looked like a pig with a pig nose, yet others think hes sexy AF. 

So someone meets another person, and they see that persons face and body and it triggers emotions and feelings of arousal.

Then they communicate silently and biochemically with hormonal gasses called Pheromones. Pheromones are the reason women sleep in your tshirts when you are gone. Your shirts are saturated with your pheromones

In the 80s, this perfume with pheromones was all the rage. 

Next, attraction is how you talk to each other. Im a sapiosexual so I get turned off by dumb people and low effort conversation. But sometimes even a smart person doesnt do it for me. One ex of mine had a 154 IQ, but his "Sex Game" was like Lenny and Squiggy from Laverne and Shirley.

Next, attraction is (for women and gay bottoms) is the need to feel safe, to be vulnerable and let ourselves open up and be free. We cant do that if you creep us out or have anger issues. I think what creeps women out is when men rush conversations because they are desperate to get a woman and arent discerning enough themselves, so they start off acting like we are GONNA DATE OR ELSE. And we dont want that. That means you have no self control and wanna date to date...  

Being a gay bottom or woman makes us vulnerable. Someone else is on top of us, and a part of his body is going INSIDE our body! So we feel very very vulnerable....

Dont get me wrong, we love being vulnerable, but only when we feel 100% absolutely safe with someone. So if you are creepy, we wont feel safe. Thats not our fault its yours. You have to grow up and educate yourself. We dont wanna be the next Maddie Mogen...

I think Ive demonstrated that just because YOU might like us and be attracted to us, doesnt mean we have to like and date you. Attraction is a 2 way street. This aint the wild west where women had to put up with stinky, gross men straight from the gold mines. This is 2025.

Im closing, its you insecure homophobic men who are the common denominator.

White, Religious, Conservative Republican Men have kept this entire planet hostage for eons. The entire world is structured for your fragile ego. You have to be constantly coddled, your ego stroked. 

The psychologists that work in advertising KNOW that you have to be told that you can get those women in Playboy. Thats how they keep you going. So all ads in the world are catering to you.

Instead, women get abused and neglected, their rights stripped away, gays beaten and killed their rights stripped away. Black men abused and killed, their rights stripped away, Immigrants abused, killed their rights stripped away. ALL TO KEEP YOUR FRAGILE EGO STROKED. 

Again, its YOU who is the common denominator destroying this world.

YOU! Look in the mirror!

Read, Educate Yourself, Take Some Classes, Go To Therapy, Listen To Your Wife. and stop blaming gay men, immigrants and minorities for YOUR issues.